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When kindness comes full circle: Quynh’s story

There are moments when support changes a life. And there are moments when that same support returns; passed forward, quietly and intentionally.


Quỳnh’s story holds both.


The donors in the photo are Roxane and her son James during their first visit to Hanoi.
The donors in the photo are Roxane and her son James during their first visit to Hanoi.

When Quỳnh was 14, she believed her education was coming to an end.


Her mother had passed away when she and her siblings were still very young. Her father was no longer present in the family, and their grandfather was raising four children on his own.


Life was shaped by constant trade-offs. There was never quite enough; not enough income, not enough security, and often not enough certainty about what would come next.


“My family was very poor” Quỳnh recalled.


At some point, the reality became too heavy to ignore. Quỳnh began to think about what she could do to help.


“I asked my grandfather if I could leave school and stay home to herd cows,” she said.

“I wanted to earn money for the family.”


But her grandfather saw something more in her, a future worth protecting.


And in a moment that would shape all of their lives, Quỳnh’s older sister made a quiet sacrifice. She left school instead and began working, so Quỳnh could continue her education.


Quỳnh (right) and Roxane (left) share a happy moment together.
Quỳnh (right) and Roxane (left) share a happy moment together.

When Someone Steps In


Around that same time, HSCV had just begun supporting students in Quỳnh’s village, helping cover education costs that might otherwise prevent children from staying in school.


Quỳnh was among the first 20 students to receive this support.


Through HSCV, her story reached Roxane, a founding Board Member. After meeting Quỳnh in person, Roxane saw the same spark in her that her grandfather saw. She knew she would stand alongside this family for the long run. 


“Roxane supported our family with rice and money every month,” Quỳnh shared. “Back then, what she gave us was enough to feed the whole family.”


But it wasn’t only the support itself that mattered.


Each time Roxane visited Vietnam, she spent time with Quỳnh and her siblings. She took them out for meals, brought small gifts, and asked about their dreams.


For a family that had lived with constant uncertainty, these moments felt different.

“We had never had someone care about us like that,” Quỳnh said. “Roxane cared for us very much.”


For the first time, Quỳnh felt something new,  not just support, but belief.


Choosing the Harder Path


Years later, when Quỳnh graduated from high school, she faced another difficult decision.


She had been accepted into several universities, including Hanoi Medical University. But continuing her education meant more years of cost, more pressure on her family.


She hesitated.


“I thought maybe I should choose a shorter path so I could start working sooner,” she said.


But once again, someone stepped in — not with pressure, but with encouragement.


“If you like nursing, then follow your dream,” Roxane told her.


And when Quỳnh worried about the cost, Roxane reassured her:


Go to university. Don’t worry about the tuition or living expenses.


That moment mattered.


It gave Quỳnh permission to choose not what was easiest — but what she truly wanted.


Quỳnh, back then, working as a nurse and preparing medication in a hospital ward.
Quỳnh, back then, working as a nurse and preparing medication in a hospital ward.

Carrying It Forward


Quỳnh committed herself fully to her studies. She spent four years at Hanoi Medical University, later working in hospitals in Vietnam.


“I only knew that I had to study hard so that later I could have a job and not be poor anymore,” she said.


Eventually, her journey took her even further, to Germany, where she continued building her career as a nurse.


But the path was not easy.


“There were many times I wanted to give up and go back to Vietnam,” she shared. “I felt tired. I felt alone.”


And yet, she stayed.


Because she remembered why she started.


And because, somewhere along the way, she had made a quiet promise to herself:


If she ever could, she would help others too.


When Kindness Comes Full Circle


Today, Quỳnh’s life looks very different.


She has built a home in Germany. She has a husband, a daughter, and a sense of stability that once felt far away.


And now, she is giving back.


Through HSCV, Quỳnh is supporting a university student, someone who, like her, is standing at a fragile point between continuing and giving up.


Her giving is not abstract. It is deeply personal.


She remembers exactly what it felt like to be on the edge of losing her education. She remembers what it meant when someone reached out and changed her path.


“When you have been through so much difficulty, and someone lifts you up, you have more faith in life,” she said. “You have more motivation.”


“So I think I should help the children a little, so they can overcome the hardships I once went through.”



Quỳnh with her husband and daughter in Germany.
Quỳnh with her husband and daughter in Germany.

Her hope is simple:


 “I just hope my small gift can help them be less burdened, so they do not have to worry too much about life and can focus on studying,” she said. “If they study well, then later they can find better work, earn a better income, and get out of poverty.”


A Circle That Continues


Quỳnh’s story is not only about one person’s journey.


It is about what happens when support is steady, personal, and timely.


A girl once needed someone to believe in her.

A family once needed food, stability, and care.

A future once depended on a single decision.


Today, that same girl has become a woman extending her hand to someone else.


This is how impact grows.

Not all at once but over time, through people, through relationships, through trust.


Kindness does not end. It continues.


Be Part of the Circle


There are still many students standing where Quỳnh once stood — capable, determined, and at risk of leaving school.


Your support can help them stay.


Join this circle of kindness.


Support HSCV and help more children continue their education and build a future they can believe in.



 
 
 

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