Becoming a doctor: Thuy’s story of determination and friendship
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As June comes, bringing with it the summer heat wave, students across Vietnam are elated to welcome a break from school and enjoy the summer. For Thuy, however, this summer marks a monumental milestone in her life - one so significant that if she had been told years ago that she would one day reach this point, her younger self probably wouldn't have believed it.
Early aspirations and hardship
Thuy was born into a family of nine in the rural area of Ba Vi District, where opportunities were few and hardship was a daily reality.
“Growing up, my father’s constant battle with illness sparked in me a deep desire to help others - to make a real difference.” Thuy recalled, speaking of her childhood motivation to become a doctor. “I believed that with enough hard work and study, I could turn that dream into reality.”
However, life wasn’t easy. Thuy’s mother had to fight every day to provide for their family, often with barely enough to get by. The dedicated mother, worrying for her daughter and striving to be pragmatic, suggested that Thuy pursue less challenging paths such as Education or Economics. Yet, Thuy remained committed to her dream.
The beginning of a friendship
As Thuy busily studied to prepare for the university entrance exam during her last year in high school, a community leader from her province sought out a way to help Thuy. He reached out to HSCV; from that point on, we connected Thuy with one of our longtime supporters - Mr. Jeff.
Not only did he immediately extend a helping hand financially, lifting some of the burden off Thuy and her family during this crucial time, Jeff made the promise to fund Thuy’s medical education as well should she get in medical school. Boosted by such encouragement coupled with her hard work, Thuy successfully passed the university entrance exam and got into University of Medicine and Pharmacy in Hanoi.
Navigating the challenges of city life
Thuy was then faced with a whole new set of challenges: adapting to the fast-paced and unforgiving environment of Hanoi.
“Back in high school, I had only one dream: to move to Hanoi and continue my education. That was it - I didn’t yet understand how hard life in the city could be.” Thuy recalled. “It was only after arriving that I realized just how challenging it would be to study and make a living here.”
To cover her living expenses, Thuy took on various part-time jobs, from working as a salesperson at a shoe shop to tutoring privately. Balancing work and school was no easy task; she often studied late into the night, often sacrificing sleep just to keep up.
“At one point, things became so difficult that I seriously considered taking a break from medical school to return home, maybe live with my family, work different jobs to then come back to school later when I’ve saved up a little.” Thuy admitted.
Renewed support and unwavering determination
During this trying time, Mr. Jeff happened to travel to Hanoi, and the two friends met for the first time.
“I always remember hitting it off with Jeff – he was just like my Dad. He talked about his life stories and I find them so interesting.” Thuy shared.
Learning of Thuy’s struggle during this meeting, Jeff decided to deepen his support. He would now cover her living expenses, in addition to the tuition he was already funding.
“I hope you become not only a good doctor but also a good citizen.” Jeff told Thuy. His words carried volumes of how much faith and hope he had for her. So Thuy fought on.
The demands of clinical training
When her clinical training began, Thuy not only had to digest a huge amount of medical knowledge but also had to learn how to communicate with senior doctors, nurses, and patients. Real-life hospital settings forced Thuy to face her own limitations but also propelled her growth. By her sixth year, hospital shifts became more frequent, and clinical practice consumed nearly all her time. The Emergency and Intensive Care Unit was the most demanding, where sometimes she only slept two hours between critical cases.
“There were times where I thought to myself ‘Can I go on?’ It seemed like I was at my limit. But that was the reality of becoming a doctor, you know? You just have to be good, you just have to keep moving forward.” Thuy said. “I was thinking about my family and Jeff as well, they have so much hope for me and I couldn’t stand disappointing them.”
Graduation and future
This June, Thuy finally graduated.
After six long years of medical school and many trials and tribulations, this fall, Thuy will start her career as an intern at Viet Duc Hospital - one of the best public hospitals in the city - where she can serve her community, care for the sick, and help save lives.
“Looking back, there were so many moments I didn’t think I would make it - late nights, self-doubt, and obstacles that felt impossible to overcome. But every challenge shaped me into someone stronger, more determined. Now, as I step into the next chapter, I’m focused on building a career that not only reflects my passion but also gives back to the communities that supported me. This is just the beginning.” Thuy said with determination.
“I imagine the next twelve months of her internship will be as challenging as medical school,” Jeff remarked. He added, “I have learned that it would cost money to earn her license - I’ll be happy to continue supporting Thuy in this regard.”
Thuy’s journey doesn’t end here. She had big dreams: to finish her internship and be licensed as a doctor, to pursue advanced education so she can work at the best hospitals, where she can best help her patients and build a quality of life for herself and her family.
“Thuy has always carried big dreams and a quiet strength that pushed her forward. Thuy did it all on her own, I merely helped her get there with fewer challenges.” Jeff stated.
Thuy’s story is a testament to perseverance and effort. HSCV believes every child in the world has unlimited potential and deserves to be given the best resources, encouragement, motivation, and care to help them thrive. By becoming a friend of HSCV, you don't just offer aid; you join their journey toward a brighter future. Your generosity can empower more children to overcome their challenges and unlock their unique promise. Partner with us to nurture dreams, transform lives, and build a lasting legacy.
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